Both Parents Should Assume Equal Responsibility in Raising a Child

Both Parents should assume equal responsibility in Raising a Child

Men as well as woman who have children should always share in the rearing of their offspring. Raising children is not an easy task. It requires the participation of both parents in order for the children to grow into well-balanced adults with strong character, and skill necessary to carry them through their lives. Which happens when the parents collaborate together, whether married or single parents in the shared parental responsibility and major decision making in the area that have long term consequences in the lives of their children in areas of ; child care, schooling, school trips and activities, vacations, medical care, choosing doctors, religious training, sports, etiquette, handling finances, how to keep their homes, proper nutrition's, how to drive, hunt, fish, home maintenance, dating issues, discipline, and a host of other things that their children will face in life as we grow.

The responsibility of raising children is immediately from the time they bring the child home on the first day. This is when the bonding of the child and parents begins. The mom of course is in need the most during this time of help from her mate she is feeling the pain of the literal child bearing experience, and really needs the father to be right there to take care of her and the baby needs. There is a huge responsibility of making sure that the baby is fed, bathed, and changed, to cooking cleaning, and doing everything else that mom usually does to keep the home running but cannot be done because of the birth of the new baby. If the parents are not a couple, and the father is not able to step in to help, then he would need to make sure to arrange to have someone come in to the home to handle the things that need to be done on a daily basis until the mom can get back on her feet.

After the children are born is where it gets tricky. Parents have to plan wisely. It is a little easier when both parents live in the same home but that is not always the case. The responsibility will vary a great deal when one parent lives somewhere else. Dealing with the multitude of issues of raising a child can get a little crazy at times.

Child care ( if needed) is always an issue in the early stages of the child's, and parent's life. There is the decision as to who to hire that is trustworthy to take care of the children, and how much can the family afford? In addition, if single who pays, and how much? In addition, how does the child get to and from the day care? Will the dad or mom pick them up? And when they become school age choosing a school should be the responsibility of both parents as well as the expense. Not to mention the after school activities that take place on a regular basis, once the children start to sign up for different activities of interest. The parents have to also make a decision on what schools to place their children in. It can make a big difference in the amount of opportunities available to them to learn from. Then you have the school trips they will allow the children to take and if parent are in different households cost is a constant factor.

During the growing period of the child is a critical time, should one of the parents' lives. This can cause a great deal of stress on the children. Both parents have a very strong effect on their children's emotional state of mine (Kruk, 2012).

A part of the parent and child's life is the bonding experience of vacationing. When parents are together the decision here are easier, and cheaper than planning separate vacations for the Mom and then vacation with the father. This can lead to stress for the child.

Another area of concern is who chooses the doctors and dentist and possible long-term care, or special needs of the children? This is a serious choice as well and both parents should be involved in the decision here. They also have the health insurance to take in consideration for the children at all times, no matter if they are together or not.

Not having a father in the home also makes the decision to circumcise (if they have a son) a very difficult one and even if the father is not a vital part of the child's life, he should still have the right to decide (Goodhart, 1997).

Religious training is another area of concern. When both parents are, there it is usually an easy choice. However, when they divorce and remarry who decides for the children which faith to train the children in? Along

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