Married Life

Being single or married? Which one do you prefer? On the survey that I had conducted, seven out of ten correspondents choose to get married. Marriage is a bed of roses, blessing and made in heaven. The happiness of married life can not be described in words. Marriage is civilizer of the world. Most of the people thought that being married is for the pleasure. But, actually the pleasure comes with a price to pay in creating and maintaining a happy marriage. You have to be fully prepared to pay the price of pleasure you seek.

Getting married and building a family is not an easy task to do. It entails hard work and there will be painful issues to work out and disagreements between husband and wife are inevitable. It happens because both man and women are totally different even twins also have different opinions and thoughts. No one in the world has the same hobbies, feelings, ideas and thoughts. Willing to accept and share the partners as what he or she is very great sacrifice one had made. That is the fate you had to accept when you want to get married.

People always think that it is a duty to get married and that married is a very important event in their lives. I also agree on that because I want to see my generation exist in the world. However, marriage and problems are interrelated and people must remember that getting married will have to face problems and responsibilities that they had never expected and experienced before. For instance, being single you can wake up late in the morning but when you had married, you can not do that because you have to manage the households. When two people marry, they are combining their problem. Take the opportunity to know the problems arise in your relationship. Share it to reduce suspicion and mistrust. Both man and woman should show implicit trust for one another and try not to have secrets between them. Secrets create suspicion, suspicion leads to jealously, jealously generates anger and anger may result to separation. That is the major causes for most of married couples in the world.

Besides that, I believed that we must get to know our partner well before decided to get married. Generally, people in love tend to show only the best aspects of their nature and character to each other in order to project good impression of them. They are not honest in whatever they did. Somehow, after married, the true nature of each other's character will revealed. This aspect we should avoid because pretending could not be accepted in involving the relationship.

Is it friendship can lead to happy marriage? Love are blind, they forget to see other things around us-the real world. And that is why love is not always practical. Friendship is just like a relation of one soul in two bodies. It brings trust and confidence. It is more practical. In other word-it is not blind. Combination of love and friendship will lead to great happiness

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