Thesis Case
Essay by Greek • August 29, 2011 • Essay • 430 Words (2 Pages) • 1,703 Views
INTRODUCTION:
How do you cope with difficult situations? How do you react to things like rows with
your partner or between parents and children? People who find themselves in difficult situations
react in different ways, but they are rarely logical and sensible, the emotional side takes over,
this applies to all ages and both sides in an argument. Ideally youth has understanding of new
ideas and adaptability and age brings maturity and experience, in the real world, however, we are
all people and all imperfect. Let's consider these emotional responses. They often seem random
but, it usually fall into one of three groups. Firstly there is the fault finder, blamer. In full flow,
the blamer will be in the centre of the room, pointing a finger at the object of their wrath, and
shouting. Blamers are typically visual people, they can see all the faults, things are black and
white and they are focused on their view of the world. Think back to the last occasion there was
a row, did you use the words "It's your fault that..." "It's because of you that..." "Just look at
yourself..."or "You are to blame for.
Secondly there is the pleaser the placate, usually a person who is all feelings. Think of
them, kneeling at your feet, hands held together in supplication, admitting fault, begging
forgiveness, taking blame; none of which helps to address whatever was the problem. This is
about getting all the rough nastiness to go away and returning to a smooth and peaceful life, they
can't stand disturbance and will do almost anything to make it go away. They may not have
happy lives, but pleasers and blamers often establish a working relationship, being a third party
to it is not always easy.Many people have experienced a personality clash in their lifetime that
has caused internal stress. When meeting a potential in-law and there is an instantaneous dislike,
it's generally experienced by
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